Explicit Video: Women, Porn, & Narcissism [Most Read - Last 28 Days]
This 'female gaze' may explain why women are
often willing to take part in amateur porn. There are
scores of websites devoted to camcorder clips
of women being filmed by their boyfriends as
they pout, strip, play with their vaginas, and masturbate
Being Desired Is the Orgasm for Women [Source]
Narcissism and the feeling of being desired
play a large role in women’s sexuality
“The female body looks the same whether aroused or not. The male, without an erection, is announcing a lack of arousal. The female body always holds the promise, the suggestion of sex.”
A suggestion that sends a charge through both men and women. Meana emphasized the role of being desired — and of narcissism — in women’s desiring.
The critical part played by being desired, Julia Heiman observed, is an emerging theme in the current study of female sexuality.
Meana made clear that, when it comes to desire, “the variability within genders may be greater than the differences between genders,” that lust is infinitely complex and idiosyncratic.
She pronounced, as well, “I consider myself a feminist.” Then she added, “But political correctness isn’t sexy at all.”
For women, “being desired is the orgasm,” Meana said somewhat metaphorically — it is, in her vision, at once the thing craved and the spark of craving.
Meana’s ideas have arisen from both laboratory and qualitative research. With her graduate student Amy Lykins, she published, in Archives of Sexual Behavior last year, a study of visual attention in heterosexual men and women.
Wearing goggles that track eye movement, her subjects looked at pictures of heterosexual foreplay. The men stared far more at the females, their faces and bodies, than at the males.
The women gazed equally at the two genders, their eyes drawn to the faces of the men and to the bodies of the women — to the facial expressions, perhaps, of men in states of wanting, and to the sexual allure embodied in the female figures.
This may explain why women are often willing to take part in amateur porn.
There are scores of websites devoted to camcorder clips of women being filmed by their boyfriends as they pout, strip, play with their vaginas, and masturbate.
There are also plenty of teenage girls who 'perform' in front of their own camcorders, often as interested in watching themselves on the computer screen as men are in watching them.
They enjoy the male gaze. They get a kick out of being desired. Men don't seem to have that extra sexual dimension.
Perhaps gays do. The queer stereotype suggests that they are more narcissistic than straight men.
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Don't get me wrong, I can't deny the fact that women want to be desired.
This is their number one priority since they are 13. But don't you think
that sexy me=orgasm can sound a little bit offensive for woman?