Oral Sex: Go Down & Give Her Pleasure!
A Guide to Cunnilingus
So here’s the sticky issue, so to speak. If an escort [prostitute] is working when she has sex with you, and as part of her job she’s not apt to ever stop you mid-lick and say “dude, you fucking stink” how exactly are you to know if you really are pleasing her?People visit escorts for different reasons. Some dudes just want company, some don’t want the hassle of dating or relationships. Some guys have been unlucky trying to have standard relationships and some guys are just horny and in a hurry.
All are pretty valid and standard reasons. And when you get together with your escort of choice it’s generally thought to be solely about your pleasure. Generally.
As it happens, a lot of hobbyists enjoy pleasing their partner and, though obviously not for everyone, some guys really enjoy going down on a woman.
For many this doesn’t make sense with an escort at all, but some guys get off on getting her off. But alas, if the women of the world are to be believed, and we’ll have to defer to them on this, some dudes just suck at it.
So here’s the sticky issue, so to speak. If an escort is working when she has sex with you, and as part of her job she’s not apt to ever stop you mid-lick and say “dude, you fucking stink” how exactly are you to know if you really are pleasing her?
Biologically speaking there are hints you can look for to determine if you’re actually making her writhe in pleasure or if it’s part of her plan to audition for Shakespeare in the park.
A really good escort could still fake a number of these, of course, and you’ll probably be too distracted to want to have a checklist handy to make sure, but let’s see what we can see anyway.
First physical thing you want to look for is erect nipples. Not to hard to notice but a good shot of AC or nipple piercings can make them shoot up too. Still, if they’re present it’s a promising start.
You’re also ideally going to be noticing increase lubrication, which is to say a wet pussy. Sounds like a no brainer but if you’re lapping away like an old hound dog you may not know whose liquid is whose down there.
Harder to notice, as you have to compare to non-arousal, is the flushing of the labia and the clitoris becoming erect as well. Unless you
have a detective’s eye for detail you may not notice the difference. You really want to watch the entire landscape around the pelvic area, however.
Thighs, stomach, everything, for quick, jerky muscle spasms and clenching. Muscle contractions are the go to sign for orgasms, it’s damn near impossible to have an orgasms without them.
This should be accompanied by a flushing of the skin, around the face, the breasts and the labia. When the orgasms subsides, the flushing should fade with it as well. Lots to look out for, right?
Worse than trying to monitor all that is the fact you have a job to do at the same time to ensure that all actually happens and, according to some ladies, if you’re going to town you may be taking the wrong road.
Sure, it all depends on the individual woman but there are a few guidelines that should point you in the right direction every time.
To start with, if you’re using your fingers at all, at any time, have trimmed nails. Because it’s gross otherwise. And you can cause infections.
You’ll also want to use lube unless she’s gushing like a waterfall already. A lot of guys try to jam a digit in there full bore with no lube for God knows what reason and apparently most chicks don’t dig it. Go figure.
When it comes to the actual oral part of oral sex, there’s a lot of ground to cover. You could go straight for the clit, or you could lick along the sides of the lips next to the thigh.
Lick the lips themselves, trying sucking or kissing as well. Keep your eyes on the physical responses to know what seems to be working.
By and large she’s not going to give any conscious indication if you’re fucking up so you have to look for the subtle hints.
If you want to toy with her, avoid the clit. It’s sensitive anyway and if you go to town on it that may be what’s not working for her and, in turn, you. So tease around it then just go to town with your tongue and fuck her with it.
It’s not going to get the job done like good, old fashioned fucking but that’s the point, it’s a tease and it’ll make her want more attention on her clit. Oral is all about the build up, not diving in head first.
If she does orgasm, that’s not your cue to quit, it’s a good indicator you just hit the money spot and it’s best to keep going. Women being multi-orgasmic and all, it’s a good time to exploit that, even if she’s bucking you around and bruising your face.
Remember, if you really are about pleasing her, you have to be in it for the long haul. Do your homework and watch closely. With an escort, it’s an uphill battle.